10 things your doctor never told you about giving birth | Edmonton Newborn Photographer
March 3, 2025
Hey there YEG mama-to-be! So, you might be feeling a little overwhelmed with all the information (or lack thereof) about giving birth in Edmonton. But don’t worry, I’ve got you! I am not only an Edmonton Fresh 48 and newborn photographer, but a mom of three beautiful girls. I work with first time parents a lot and several tell stories of a birth that didn’t go the way they expected or planned. Here are 10 things your doctor probably didn’t tell you about giving birth that will help you feel more prepared and in control.
(And hey, if these pique your interest, bring these up to your doctor at the next appointment!
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You don’t have to give birth in the hospital
Giving birth at home or in a Edmonton or area birth center can provide a more relaxed and intimate setting for the birth of your baby. It allows you to have more control over the birthing process and can provide a more personalized experience. This option is safe for low-risk pregnancies and has similar or better outcomes compared to hospital births.
I had always considered this an option for myself; unfortunately there was a shortage of midwives and birth centers when I was having my babies and I never was able to inquire early enough. I’ve worked with several Edmonton newborn photo clients who highly recommend Lucina Birth Centre Home – Lucina Midwives & Birth Centre.
Other options in Edmonton and Alberta include:
Rinita – Midwives led Birth Centre | Rinitabirthcentre.ca | St. Albert
Birth Suite | West Country Midwives in Rocky Mountain House
Arbour Birth Center 30 years of serving families in Calgary and area
Question for your doctor: Would he/she support you and work with a home birth midwife if you decided to go this route?
Epidurals are not the only form of pain relief available during labor
Epidurals are a common form of pain relief during labor, but they are not the only option available. Other forms of pain relief include nitrous oxide, spinal blocks, and natural methods such as hypnobirthing, acupuncture and massage. These options can provide a more natural and less invasive form of pain relief. I never had a very strong pain tolerance, so an epidural was the most effective choice for me.
Question for your doctor: What other pain relief options do they see often that’s effective other than epidural?
You can bring your own music or sounds to the delivery room
Music can have a powerful impact on our emotions, and it can help create a calm and soothing environment for you during labor. You can bring your own playlist, a sound machine, or even your own voice to help you relax and focus during labor.
Question for your doctor: Can I bring music to the birthing room?
Birthing pools can help you feel more comfortable and relaxed during labor
Warm water can help ease the pain and discomfort of contractions, and it also allows you to move around more easily, which can help the baby move down the birth canal. Birthing pools can also provide a sense of privacy and intimacy during labor.
Question for your doctor: Are there birth pools at the hospital or another way I can use water to relax?
You will probably poop during labor (and that’s okay!)
It’s a normal and natural part of the birthing process, and your nurses and doctors are used to it. Don’t let this concern hold you back, it’s nothing to be embarrassed about. It happened to me all three times lol!
Birthing positions – there are many different positions that can help make the birthing process easier
There are various birthing positions that can help make the birthing process easier, such as standing up, sitting down, on your hands and knees, or even lying down. Experiment with different positions to find what feels most comfortable for you.
Question for your doctor: In what positions are you willing to help me birth my baby?
A doula is a professional trained to provide emotional and physical support to a woman and her partner during pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum period. A doula can help you with relaxation techniques, provide emotional support, and advocate for your wishes during birth.
Doulas are a great support and aren’t only used for birth
Considering a doula for your own birth? You can find more information and connect with a local Edmonton doula at:
Question for your doctor: Do you work with doulas often? Are there any you recommend or have worked with?
You can eat and drink during labor, if you want to
Having a light snack can help keep your energy levels up. It’s important to listen to your body and your healthcare provider during labor, and to make sure you are well hydrated and nourished.
Question for your doctor: Under what circumstances will I not be allowed to eat or drink in labor?
The power of the mind – visualization and other relaxation techniques can help during labor
Visualization and relaxation techniques such as hypnobirthing, yoga, and meditation can help you stay calm and focused during labor. It can also help to lower stress hormones and increase endorphins, which can make labor more manageable.
Question for your doctor: Is there anything I can do now to learn how to cope with labor?
Cesarean sections are not as scary as they seem.
C-sections are a common form of delivery and can be planned or unplanned. Your doctor and nurses will take great care of you and your baby during the procedure. It’s important to remember that a c-section is a surgical procedure and there are risks associated with it, but it can also save the lives of both mother and baby in certain situations. I did not have a c-section with any of my babies, but I was the first of 5 c-section births my mother had.
Question for your doctor: In what circumstances do you perform c-sections?
So, there you have it, mama. You’re armed with some new information that will hopefully help you feel more confident and excited about your birth in Edmonton! If you are reading this I bet that baby is arriving soon! Don’t let those first lifetime moments slip by. Book your Fresh 48 and or Edmonton Newborn portraits in your second trimester.
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